Learning Programing again?

Hi I recently asked a question about programming. If my ideas are right programing is telling objects what to do with a code language. If I'm right on a hunch it would be easy to learn other language after learning one but that's a guess. If this guess is true then what would be a good first learn language. If not where would I find a list of languages and what each does so I can pick the one I would like to use. OH this also all hinges on the hunch that the easiest way to learn about programing is to learn a language witch I'll have to do eventually any ways.